it will slide up your hand during use
It's so long, about 9 inches, that it will slide up your hand during use. This makes the strap less useful if the paddle should slip from your hand during use. The wrist strap, aka hanger, is leather though admittedly not high quality leather. Is the vibrator fault? Nah, not at all. mbsextoys If you always get off from rubbing yourself up and down, it makes sense that trying to rub yourself left/right would be harder to orgasmIf you find yourself unable to orgasm without vibrations, the best way to "fix" it (if it a problem for you), is to slowly train your body back to orgasming from whatever method you interested in. The book I reading now, "I Love Female Orgasms", talks more about this, but it completely normal to enjoy vibrational stimulation, and it won hurt your body at allIt totally normal to train yourself to orgasm one way. male sex toys Alternate between just stroking the shaft; just stroking the glans; and stroking right from the base of his shaft ...